Is that something either of us really want an answer to?

[There's a warning in his tone, for all that he continues anyway.]

What does any of that have to do with caring for your respect, your consideration? Not all of us rely on others for our self-worth, Irhya. Besides-- [A sideways glance, given with his bad eye.] having to state such a thing, as though it were remarkable or noteworthy... only serves to insult. It implies that you only bother with it when I've provided you with something you want. Advice. Attention. Perhaps I should dispense with providing either.

[None of which really seemed to hit the core of the issue... which he yet had trouble identifying. Was it just another aspect of a lack of trust or forgiveness? Resentment?

He never had this problem with Rose or K'rihnn.]